The M-Factor

Well, a lot has been said about this M-Factor by many authors across the world.
Its definition can be interpreted in many ways but in all its essence is the same.
It can be inside you and so does can it be thrust on you from others. But in the end, how your energy level scales up is all what it matters. According to law of magnetism “Like poles repel each other”. But according to law of life “Like minds attract each other”.
For this M-factor to multiply one must certainly have these all two important and prominent factors.
1) Self-belief
2) Patience
Yes!!! “Motivation” is all am talking about. Of course, there are so many other factors that aid in motivation but in all the above two are the ones that occupy the top slots.
Let us look into both of these in depth.

Self-belief, as the word suggests is all something you got to believe. Got to believe what?? Believe blindly? Everything? Nah!! It is about believing yourself. Yeah! You ought to believe about yourself and your capability blindly because that is the only way your mind does not raise a red flag and put brakes on your thoughts and approach. Well there are two ways to live. One is living INSIDE OUT and the other is living OUTSIDE IN. Well does any of you have heard these words anywhere before? To be frank, I don’t want myself to get caught in the plagiarism controversy just like Harvard sophomore. These are wonderful words from the book “52 ways to live success” by Jeanne Sharbuno.
Living INSIDE OUT is like Being + Doing + Having that ultimately leads to success.
“Being” is be yourself. Believe yourself. Try to know what is important to you and how important it is to you. “Doing “ is what you got to do to take over from “Being” stage to “Having stage”. It is the stage where your dedication and determination comes into the fray.” Having” is what you achieve finally. It can be money, happiness or success. But what ultimately matters is the belief that you carried all over from “Being” to “Having”. Had you faltered anywhere in between it would have been nearly impossible for you proceed any further and you might need to start it all over again. As you might have seen that the one word that I had started with never featured here. Well!! It need not be. Infact it is the conglomeration of whatever I have said in this passage. Self-motivation drives you. Drives you towards your destination. Mind you!! It doesn’t drive you crazy 
Many of us make the mistake of living OUTSIDE IN.

Next comes “Patience” the nucleus of success. Positive approach, self confidence, dedication can all attribute to success but what really takes you to the final destination is your patience. Remember,” Rome was not built in a day”. You can’t achieve success in the wink of your eye. Patience prevents you from taking hasty decisions and calms your mind to make your decision wise. Self-belief and Patience goes hand in hand led by their master Motivation.

Well, there is no one better than you to motivate yourself in this world. When one is short of confidence, fearful it is better to instill confidence in him/her by motivating him. External motivation is good but self motivation is ultimate. And now I hope that I have instilled confidence in people who have fallen short thereby motivating them. By the way you ought not to visit this article again if you have already read because I know by this time you have lots of self confidence and self motivation. All the best!!!